My sweet lisa

[Tojo]

By now everyone with a PC knows about katie & I, but not that I have another girl.

Evan's thread inspired me, so I asked her today how she felt about being mentioned.

For those interested, I'll introduce her briefly.

We've been chatting each day for about 8 months now & have a pretty good thing going. She's living back with her family for the present, so doesn't have the privacy to 'play' much. She's also quite young, & I have reservations about going too fast with her. She's very special to me.

She's 'collared' to me- at least in the sense that she's committed & agrees that she's my property. I have rules such as bedtime, & various tasks such as going for a walk each week. She wears her collar for me one night each week.

Mostly I'm a mentor & supporter for her, which I love doing. I've helped her through a few difficulties.

I've bought her a collar recently, up til now she's used her own. I'll send it to her soon, she lives a looong way away.

We've dabbled in orgasm control & she sometimes calls me Master-& seems to know just when to say it.

For me it shows that a D/s relationship can be serious without me being there to 'force' her to do things & without physical punishment. The whole time I've known her I've once asked her to kneel down in her room for 5 minutes as a punishment.

Enough for now.

Tojo

[maddie]

How nice for both of you, Tojo! From what I've seen in my brief time here, you sound like the perfect person to teach a new sub.

[Aussiegirl1]

I have to agree Maddie. I have had the pleasure of getting to know Tojo over the last month and can say that Lisa has found a great guy to guide and support her.

Well done on the post Tojo, I am sure you will inspire others as well.

[Ozme52]

Tojo - 2

Oz - zip.


Damn....

[Tojo]

Thanks guys, so sweet. Aussiegirl, the feeling is mutual.

When I met lisa, she'd just been dumped by a fake Dom- (not a wannabee, a fake, he's since lost interest in the lifestyle & 'gone straight')

She has no job, & of course no money. One of the things I'm doing soon will be to send her $100 to teach her something about money. The rule is she's not allowed to spend it, except in a dire emergency.

lisa is not her real name, that's what I named her when she decided she was mine.

Things aren't always perfect between us- once I had to say 'easy girl' when she was being difficult. I love the way a gentle word can make her stop & think about her behaviour.

I'm a very lucky fellow.

Tojo

[cariad]

Tojo, I can feel the pride and the joy coming through your words as you write about lisa.

Thank you for sharing something so beautiful, and I wish you both every happiness.

cariad

[Warbaby1943]

I'm a very lucky fellow.

Tojo

Tojo,

You are a lucky man but I have to believe you often times make your own luck happen just by the way you treat others. Keep up the good work with Lisa.

[Tojo]

Just got some nice pics from her. She's growing into a very pretty young lady. Growing her hair longer is making her look softer & more feminine. (Guess who's idea that was)

We're in the process of making up a contract together, that's mutually acceptable.

Recently we had a week of orgasm control. That was most enjoyable.
First time we've ever done it, although I've asked her to do 'certain things' from time to time.

We have a very strong friendship, which works surprisingly well, given the rather large age difference. I nearly died when she told me how old she was. In fact she lied about her age when we first met- so did my wife...

Yes you're right W/B- you do make your own luck to some extent, methinks you'd know that yourself...
I'm still a very lucky man.

Tojo

[Silke]

*sighs* I love the way you talk about your girls, so much love! Thank you for sharing, Tojo - always a pleasure to read your updates.

[mina]

I agree with Silke! It's clear that you really care for her, and all your girls. Both of you are incredibly lucky. And don't pretend you weren't excited when you found out her age.. hehe. jk. It's cute that she lied to you about it though. Oh and I like that you're teaching her about money...that's a good idea, and shows a lot of trust between you two as well. Hope to hear more updates!

[Tojo]

I showed a pic of her to my friend who's just had an early 40's birthday & is feeling 'old'

Her comment was 'she's thin, the bitch....'


Tojo