By now everyone with a PC knows about katie & I, but not that I have another girl.

Evan's thread inspired me, so I asked her today how she felt about being mentioned.

For those interested, I'll introduce her briefly.

We've been chatting each day for about 8 months now & have a pretty good thing going. She's living back with her family for the present, so doesn't have the privacy to 'play' much. She's also quite young, & I have reservations about going too fast with her. She's very special to me.

She's 'collared' to me- at least in the sense that she's committed & agrees that she's my property. I have rules such as bedtime, & various tasks such as going for a walk each week. She wears her collar for me one night each week.

Mostly I'm a mentor & supporter for her, which I love doing. I've helped her through a few difficulties.

I've bought her a collar recently, up til now she's used her own. I'll send it to her soon, she lives a looong way away.

We've dabbled in orgasm control & she sometimes calls me Master-& seems to know just when to say it.

For me it shows that a D/s relationship can be serious without me being there to 'force' her to do things & without physical punishment. The whole time I've known her I've once asked her to kneel down in her room for 5 minutes as a punishment.

Enough for now.

Tojo