Hi, Red. My first appearance here in months... and so delighted to finid this thread at once. It is brilliant... and a lot of it resonates for me like mad. I don't consider myself a slave... nor does he call himself a Master... and yet, a lot, lot lot of the attitudes - and problems! - are the same. And... it's all good to learn, and so hard. So thanks, Red, for talking this through with us.