Tojo,

I can relate to that. If T has asked for me to share him early in our marriage, I would have said no fracken way. That he lets me play Miss to my Nat is a huge deal. It could have been a marriage breaker if we were much younger, but T knows that T comes first.

And, if T asked me not to be Nat's Miss, Nat and I would honor his wishes. Happily for all of us, he hasn't asked. Nat satisfies the "switchy" side of myself.

Ruby