Firstly, welcome back Asia! This is the first thread of yours that I've posted on since your return, and I'm glad that I can uncross everything that I've kept crossed for the past month. Oo ah. That's gonna hurt in the morning.

Right, now to talk about this thread! There have been other BDSM vs Vanilla threads, and maybe this is my inexperience showing, but I could certainly see myself in a wholly vanilla relationship, if I really loved the gal in question. If I did a Tojo and showed my eventual partner a bunch of bondage mags and she crinkled her nose, I could happily see out the rest of my days with only the odd look at this site when she wasn't looking.

As for your boring guy, Asia, I'm sorry he was so dull, but I'm sure he must have been nervous and you may not have got the best from him. It'd be a brave man here who wouldn't be nervous the first time with you!

Now, if you'll just excuse me while I forge my birth certificate to make myself more than a few months older than you...

Q xx