Ok so, this is my take on chatrooms. my first experienced .....SUCKED..not to mention scared the shit out of me! Especially for a newbie (still am lol), i always made it clear that i was new and had no experience. In hindisght, maybe that wasn't such a good idea because the freaks seemed to flock to the newbies.
my second experience was here, it was very pleasant and i had a very nice chat with a lovely man. It's still made me a little nervous being in there and i haven't been back since.