i know this is a fairly old thread... but i noticed two or three things missing form the list that are enjoyable. (At least to me!)

A small gallon size paint stick works well to slap at the breasts, clit, inner thighs, etc.

A larger 5 gallon paint stick (yes i buy A LOT of paint!) and a ping pong paddle all make excellent paddles.

Using a skirt hanger (the type with the clips) works well for nipple clamps, although definitely not for extended play.