Your last post sounded like the happy cat who has just caught a tasty rat.

All your ideas sound wonderful, the only thing I would recommend is that you speak to your boyfriend in a round about way and find out if the "pouncing" thing is something he would enjoy, something totally out of the blue, or if something more planned is fitting.

As far as a loss of control goes, based on what he likes to read here on the site or look at on his hard drive, it may not need to be a real physical loss of control but something you can roleplay. Such as you really do have hypnotic powers which you can use to bend minds to your will or if you want something less exotic roleplay that you have blackmailed him somehow and he has no choice but to submit to your every whim. (heh this is getting a tad exciting) Then again, hell, just get some 1000lb. test cord, chains, padlocks etc. and show him what real loss of control is

I am sure it will be an experience neither of you will soon forget.

Drake.