Thanks for the advice! I can use all I can get, often times I feel very frustrated cause I'm not able to keep control nor am I a very good master. I try, then again I'm learning, my biggest problem is being constant and doing bdsm stuff. I'm not very creative at all. : /

Pretty much I'm not good at acting like a master, definatly doesn't come by nature. I know the things she enjoys when we mess around, it's mostly a bedroom thing, mostly, but I'm not very good at doing it, ei, humiliation, physical control and especially punishment/reward. I've been reading a lot of information yet I still don't know how I should be conducting myself in the situation, I have the idea but it's actually doing it that's the hard part. I almost wish I could watch other master/slave couples do thier thing so I could learn from it.

Patience is a virtue.