*squirms at Oz's suggestions too* yes....perhaps you are right. 'we' have changed. become lazy in our roles. resistance doesn't really work with us. i've tried that upon occassion and been met with a shrug of the shoulders. He isn't an aggressive Dominant. figures if i dont give it..He can't make me. (which is, as we all know..too true) He won't fight for what He believes should be His in the first place.

and play, per se, isn't an issue. we play. not frequently, but when we do it is always amazingly wonderful. so limits are essentially a non-issue too. i would do whatever He asked in that area.

a third party *ponders with a grin* any volunteers?