Ok so to a little background.....

I am a mechanic, highest formal education achieved is high school. I believe I have an average intellect. She on the other hand is near genius. Don't remember the score she got, but I know it was dammit high. I am not ashamed of who I am where I came from or what I might be able to accomplish due to my education level.

So onto the D/s side of things. When we met, I was new, and by new I mean I had no toys, never been to any events, never actually met or talked with anyone who was into BDSM. I knew what I wanted, and sought it out. She was the first and only person to respond to any searching I did. I am very happy that she did, and figure it must be some sort of fate that I didn't get any other responses. I learned what I have learned mostly from reading, and instruction from her.

There was a thread on here about what kind of domination do you do. I responded with physical domination, and explained why. Many of the responses that others used were mental domination. This to me presents a problem, for me at least. Since she is able to out think me, knows me so well that she can predict what I would like to do when. How does one achieve dominance with a person who is so much smarter than you?

When we play, I am able to give her a great time, I am quite skilled in that department now. Its the time between play that is causing the problem.

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