I'm sorry, a bit downer of a thread/question.

I mentioned in another thread that my sex life with my husband leaves much to be desired. We've been over it 100 times...more than that. He knows it's important to me, but he gets tired, or forgets, or just isn't paying attention because he's got something else on his mind. Yes, he does love me and I do love him...but he's left me crying and sobbing over the rejection. The oblivion to making a point to be together. (and yes, I've gone through it all, I'm not too bad at seduction, but if I've been working hard I don't always want to initiate, or ask, or [god forbid] beg.) I don't understand...why do I take it so hard? It's the way he is and nothing I say or do can change it. So why can't I just let it go?