Quote Originally Posted by learningtopleez View Post
*huggles Mishka tightly* Oh hun, I'm so sorry that you are feeling so rejected. I can't tel you why your husband behaves this way, and you say the two of you have talked about it. But is he aware that he is causing you pain? Does he know that he has left you crying and sobbing because he is so oblivious? The men I have been with in my life don't forget or get too tired for sex, and I'm not saying that to brag hun....but men....well, they're men! (No offence guys of the forum!) And all men that I have ever known have sex on the brain. Constantly! And not just the men I have been with. It's like...well...it's what men do! It sounds like to me, that the two of you need to have a serious conversation Mishka....one in which you lay down some rules. And if he loves you, and I'm sure he does, then he will respond appropriately! If he doesn't....then you have a lot to think about regarding your relationship.

I wish you luck and much love sweetie!
Thanks so much. Yes, he knows. We almost seperated last year. We've had a hundred heart to hearts. He agrees, things are better for a week or two...then back to the same. I spoke with a lawyer when I was considering leaving, he said he's never heard of a man having that attitude towards sex. Most men would love a woman like me who had so much energy and so willing to explore. He thought either my husband was gay or having an affair. Honestly, it's neither. He's just a prude. And forgetful.