Quote Originally Posted by Mishka View Post
Thanks so much. Yes, he knows. We almost seperated last year. We've had a hundred heart to hearts. He agrees, things are better for a week or two...then back to the same. I spoke with a lawyer when I was considering leaving, he said he's never heard of a man having that attitude towards sex. Most men would love a woman like me who had so much energy and so willing to explore. He thought either my husband was gay or having an affair. Honestly, it's neither. He's just a prude. And forgetful.
Mishka, you arent the only one, my ex husband wasnt interested in me once we married (I am no longer married but not for those reasons *hugs*) My ex used sex as a control thing he had, not good control but negative control...and he was screwing all my friends on top of it so I found out from a few later. learningtopleez has some good points made there.

I can't shake the feeling that I'm the one who's selfish. Everything else is mostly fine.
I just wanted you to know you arent alone feeling these feelings, others go through this too and not to start hitting on yourself or knocking yourself down. Being hard on yourself is hurting you more hon.
softest hugs
~echoes~