all i can think as i read this thread is...help! lol. perhaps it's just that i am very new to this lifestyle and therefore have almost no experience beyond some playing with kinky friends but the very idea of orgasm deprivation makes me shudder. i have a VERY high running libido and to not be allowed that release at the end of the day...*gulps*...i hate to think of anyone crossing my path. for a girl like me it would be more of a torment then any sort of pain that i can think of (and trust me despite the lack of expereince i can think of a lot!) and if ever asked i'll deny admitting that lol. anyway just my random thoughts on the topic.

hopes everyone's having a great day!
jen