Yeah, so this may seem childish but it holds the potential for a little hot chit chat. So I'm posting it.
Dominants: Do you use your submissives to satisfy yourself sexually more often or not? How often do you masturbate even though (or perhaps in spite of, if they've been bad) you may have a submissive? Do you allow your submissives to masturbated? Do you allow them to orgasm otherwise? If so, do you place any restrictions on their own pleasure?
Submissives: Are you allowed to masturbate? How often do you do it and during what times of the day? Are you required to masturbate? Does your Dominant use you for sexual pleasure? If so, how often? Are you allowed to orgasm as you like or do you have restrictions?