Quote Originally Posted by Katmandu
The more I had to hold back, the harder it became for me to let it out! Any thoughts or suggestions on why that happened?
Hiya Kats,

There's quite a lot of stuff actually on that thread you mentioned as to why that might have happened, in terms of reasons for org. control, the way it is handled, expectations of the sub etc etc. IMHO, i think successful orgasm deprivation is more like orgasm control, in that the outcome of it should really be that one finds it just as easy to climax on command as they do to NOT climax on command. It is, however, a fine line.

sl