Advice

[jamwish]

Seems to me you two will have to decide that for yourselves. Do you want her to kneel at your feet to let you know she's ready for that kind of time with you? Does she want you to grab a handful of her hair and push her to her knees to let her know you want some D/s time together?

And what does one (ok,me) do when one wants and the other does not? I'm not considering going at it against her will, but i can't just say "ok,then" after i've brought her to her knees... Then again, maybe i can...

Here's a thread where some information on just this topic is covered.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=8618

I hope this helps you. Good luck with your new venture!

tessa

Thank you tessa, i'll check out the link.
I'll keep you guys (and girls) posted as things develop.