Many people do not seem to understand how I am able to "share" my husband with his online subs and/or pets. I will try to explain it to you who are interested.

We have a very special, and I believe, very unique relationship. When we met, we were both in a downward spiral in our lives. For me, it felt like rock bottom. Then we met, and after we had talked and spent some time together, it seemed that we both found hope.

I can't honestly say that we were instantly on cloud nine. We each had our demons to face, but we just knew that, together, we could face anything. We gave our all to one another; true caring, compassion and honesty that neither of us were used to. I don't know any term that fits us better than "soulmates".

We never argue or talk down to one another, and it doesn't take lying and dishonesty to be able to get along so well. We are blessed with the gift of being able to communicate. When we have a problem, or even a disagreement, we always manage to work through it, calmly, together.

That brings me to the question of how I can "share" my husband that I love so dearly. I'm sure that he feels some degree of "love" for his online subs. Knowing him as well as I do, I know it's often much more than play. He cares about what's going on in their real lives as well. That would be true with anyone he calls a friend. Everyone has acquaintances that they don't call friends, but once a friend, there is a connection.

I don't mind that he gives pleasure to others, as long as they return the favor. I don't mind that he cares for his online subs, because I don't feel threatened by them. He is honest with me about that part of his life. He doesn't hide things. He always puts me, and our life together, first... so I'm not giving up anything, and nothing is being taken from me. He is an honorable man, and I trust him completely. He is, and has always been, by far, the best I could have ever dreamed of.