Quote Originally Posted by duktig flicka
Hi, Ruby. Are you a lurker just now emerging from the woodwork? Thank you for sharing your experiences and advice with me. It is duly noted. I wish the best of luck to you.
duktig flicka,

Thank you for starting this thread. I came "out of the woodwork"
for you. Your posts are from the heart. You ask great questions
as well as receive the advice so politely. Asking for help isn't rare,
but willing to receive it with an open mind, is. Bless you, girl,
you are special.

I've been reading the stories for over a year, just began to read the forums and usually I don't have anything to add beyond all the great advice /
comments already given. This one really, really hit me, hard.

I can freak out about something for a day or two and my husband
might have no idea / clue about the incident, nor does he think
anything is wrong.

We now have a 48-hour rule in our home.
If He/I got ticked, upset, worried about something and He/I didn't
bring it up in the first 48 hours - then we have to let it go.
Good news, compliments and/or happy thoughts have no expiration date.

jaeangel,

Thank you for being open and honest with your answers
in all your posts. I've learned so much from you and admire you greatly.

I wish the both of you all the best,

Ruby