What is your fetish?

[Shaded]

Just figured I'd throw something here. Because I have a few fetishes, and while I'm not about to list all of them.. I do have a primary one. I'm a very mental person. (Call me crazy, its been done) but I enjoy the mental aspects of dominance, being able to own somebody mentally, the challenge of making them doubt themselves, and place their faith in me.. its probably one of the more intoxicating things for me.

That said, mentality of it all aside, I have and always will be an ass man, and the art of spanking will always be a huge turn on for me. As for the rest.. well, a couple have played with me here already, and know what makes me tick. To quote. "I Mindfuck people"

[babygirlblue]

You would get along with my Daddy. We're more of the mental part than anything else when it comes to d/s.


Ooo, [wiggles and squirms] finally got diapers. Yay! I r very 'appy.

[_ID_]

The fetish map

[cariad]

That is fascinating ID.

cariad

[TomOfSweden]

The fetish map

We where wondering. How do people physically have sex with dolphins? And what about the "moldy oldies". Don't they fall apart when being fondled or fucked? So many questions, so few answers.

[floffe]

I think that the biggest turn on for me is rope. Just tying someone up. To me it's kind of an artform, and a huge turn on.

[Beswitchingly Positive]

I am not sure this is a fetish, I like mysterious men, not cheaters or criminals, but men who do not talk to much, it takes a long time to get to know them, they talk about intersting (life philosophy, compassion, health) or important things (his kids, his business, life in general and dreams and goals) , but mind you not too much...saving some details as a suprise...especially sexual ones, then to hear his sexy voice confidently giving a command...or the carefully placed comment out of context mentioned earlier that does not reveal the nature of our relations to everyone but that makes us smile as a private joke.

I this sort of the mental opposite of voyerism? Not wanting to know too much, for example I was pleased when during play I asked my lover to kiss me on the neck and he spontaneously bit me, when I responded he got nice and rough...just one small example, we both know we are kinky but have not revealed all the details...he is a switch and I have been mostly sub with switch tendencies...I think I am going to have lots of fun with him.

I have never had a switch for a sweetie, and he seems to like my timing, for example the second time we played he mentioned something that he would like in an offhand way and I waited until the next time I was with him to try it on him, he said he wanted his cock pulled on and maybe tied and I let him go home and stew a little before I tried it, it seems more effective to space out the slow exploring of each others likes...yummy.

Not to mention I have a definate fetish for dirty talk in a foriegn language I do not speak, well he could be saying anything, but there is something super sexy about trying to read tone and body language along with the sound of my lovers voice trying to express a desire to me I cannot understand so obviously....

He is very private..his personal did not say much more than that he was a switch and this made him very much sexier than I thought he was at first impression in person, that he managed to keep it to himself...we met in real time...and he speaks a foriegn language fluently...much sexier for me to know a person well enough to like them outside of sex before I can get turned on.

I on the other hand have no problem talking about what I like and he likes this, I have kept my laundry list just that, a list, and he has already shown me there are some key things we have in common (shared fondness of pain) and an abitlity to read each others bodily responses...no long discussion, just my permission and his and the agreement we will respectively stop if it really seems to be too much.

It is not sex with strangers that I crave and really like, but the mystery of slowly discovering each others kinks and the suprise of a good match...I feel as I would know if it were a bad match with the slow get to know.

Revealing too much right away seems to make me lose interest especially if every detail is all planned out in too many words.

[cariad]

Well, have never thought of that as a fetish SP, but am a fully signed up member to that particular one. Was feeling decidedly weak kneed at some points as I read your post.

cariad

[Beswitchingly Positive]

I think you said that, or something similar about one of my other posts.

Thanks, I Like You!

(Is it totally inappropriate to kiss up to an administrator like this? I am only half kidding, I have no experience with forums except I was friends with a guy that was a moderator for a big one and he was MEAN.)

[duktig flicka]

Men with long hair. It makes me completely melt. Especially when they toss it. Sometimes I sneakily push my boyfriend's long hair into his face so I can see him toss it back. Nearly gives me orgasms on the spot.

And fetishwear! I just saw the movie 300. It was one of the worst B movies I've seen (and that's saying a lot coming from a MST3K fan) but luckily the creators were kind enough to give us men walking around in underwear with leather straps across their shaved chests. So I could just ignore the cringeworthy dialogue and stare at those delicious, smooth chests with leather straps across them. Mmmmm.

[LikelySuspect]

I'm a pretty simple girl myself. I like anything thats coming from a person behind me; Whispering in my ear, kissing my neck, stroking my body... It's the feeling of not being able to know whats coming. I have the option to turn around, but I just don't want to...

I'm also a big snuggler at heart. I'm like a big kitten. I play at being tough, but alot of the time, all I want is to purr and curl up in someones arms. Someone who will take time out to snuggle with me... Yay.

Lastly, well, the last thing I'm mentioning right now, is biting. Mostly my neck... Its my newest found fetish. Suppose it ties into my love of vampirism. Was found by my last partner. Did I ever love that he abused my love of that....

[Sir_Russell]

hmmmm fetish,

So many of them it would be hard to list

I would say that seeing her tied and helpless and cumming hard also hearing her cum

[angelic.zest]

i have an ear and oral fetish-not together lol... there's something about ears that i love. its such a turn on to please a man orally, that i get so excited and cum *giggles*

kurixxx

[Hime]

Kidnapping fantasies can be a hell of a turn on. I used to have them before my lifestyle days, and I felt guily as hell about them.

These days, not so much.

I've had kidnapping fantasies since I was a kid... it took me a while to figure out what I really wanted. The other thing I used to fantasize about was being a groupie for a rock musician.

As for fetishes, hmm... spanking is a big one. Partly the spanking itself, and partly the way he holds me and gently rubs my sore ass afterwards. I think a lot of the appeal is the timing -- the feeling of inevitability when you're waiting for the next stroke.

I also really like having my throat touched and played with. My master doesn't choke me hard, but he likes to hold me by the throat with just enough pressure that I know he could hurt me. I also really like what someone else mentioned earlier -- having his arm around my throat while he's fucking me from behind, just tight enough that I have to breathe through my mouth... and usually his other arm squeezing my tits.

My Master's fetish is large breasts and breast expansion (BE). I don't know if anyone here is into that; I wasn't at all at first and didn't think it would ever work for me. Over the time we've been playing with it, though, I've come to really enjoy it -- wearing padding, silicone forms, etc, and generally allowing him to dictate how he wants me to look. At first it was the humiliation aspect that really got me -- the idea that I don't deserve to be fucked the way I am -- but over time I've gotten really excited about the idea of eventually having implants. I love to think about wearing my new tits as a symbol of his ownership of me, like my collar but more permanent, and of being on display as the ultimate fucktoy for him. When the subject first came up it almost broke our relationship, but by now it gets me hot just thinking about it. So I guess that means that it's a fetish for me, too.

He also likes to play with my nipples, squeeze and restrain my tits, and cum on them while standing over me. Basically anything involving big tits (mine are pretty big already) and he's good to go.

[Lonely Puppet]

My major fetish is anal play, having either a strapon or a plug in my ass whenever possible.

My second, and older fetish, is being shackled and caged. I've had this fetish since my teen years and during my summer vacations I would find a way to tie myself up (still giving me a way to escape my crude bonds).

Another, lesser fetish of mine is pony play, however this one isn't nearly as much of a turn on as the other two.

EDIT: Also, Kidnapping and rape fantasies are a HUGE turn on for me. Probably moreso than even anal play.

[anonymouse]

I love silk scarves, especially for bondage. It isn't simply the sensual nature of the fabric. For me, to go out with my hair tied up with a scarf, or wear one as a neck scarf or sash belt is to go out wearing items that potentially could be used for bondage. It's as if they are symbolic of my desires and represent a kind of complicitness on my part.

[Eponine]

I like the subtle stuff many of you mentioned- the silk scarves, the whispering, etc...

I love breath play- and Master's only done a little with me- He usually does choke me, to the point where I cannot breathe until He lets go- I'm wet on the spot (Master's my witness lol)...

Getting slapped in the face...

Nipples pinched till I can't stand it- that's a direct link to my clit.

But mainly, it's just the concept of domination, of Master's owning me, and doing whatever He wants (no safewords, but trust in Him that i have).

I never thought/ knew I would like to be choked the way He does. I never enjoyed being bitten before. I never thought I would enjoy knifeplay. I never even thought of the concept of having Him put a gun in my mouth- this one has not yet been done, but He talked about it. Look: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=10104

But, from Him, I love it all.

But fear is a big turn-on too. And it's a fine line, because I know He would never truly harm me... but still He does a good job making me flinch and fear and never know what the hell He's going to do!

[sullensub]

My most basic and original fetishes are blood and biting, then there’s minor slow prolonged pain, and being pushed to endure harder pains, then there is face sitting which in composes two things of breath control and being used as human furniture which I both enjoy, bondage and losing control of all mobility. A few fetishes that don't necessarily relate to bdsm are spit and being forced to swallow it, also the giantess fetish which people may not be known by people involving giant women using me and such. I think that’s about it I have a lot of random tweaks and such but not what would be a fetish.

[Mishka]

Same as majestic fae, orally pleasing a man.

[Guest91408]

An interesting thread...

I will allow Dark to list her own interests of course, but we share all so perfectly as to be interchangeable.

My strongest fetishes perhaps are breath play and pain/blood through cutting. We both have medical backgrounds and have a deep understanding of the human body that we exploit in both reality and fantasy (I suspect you will soon find the extent of our fantasy in RP or story formats). I also like enforced and rape play, this is something that can cause much anger in BDSM communities since its essential core is consensual submission, but hey, its part of who I am and who Pain and I are together…so fuck it.

The most powerful orgasm I ever had was during a prolonged period of breath play. Whilst care is always required during this activity, once you have someone that you trust with a totality and an understanding that goes beyond the norm, it can be the most intense power play ever.

Once, being bound to a metal sluice table used during autopsies and the like, Dark used tools to slice my breasts…then pulled the scalpel gently down my abdomen…the fear, the total and absolute surrender of control to someone who could quite easily cut me apart in a highly professional and medicinal manner…she smeared my blood across my body and then climbed atop me…to say we made love would to lessen the powerful act we consummated there.

There are others…but I prefer the shroud of mysteriousness to remain for a while longer. Perhaps Dark will illuminate us a little more….

[DarkSister]

As Pain stated, our interests mesh so completely that I guess its what makes us so perfectly able to switch and indulge each other in our deepest fantasies…

My greatest fetishes involve rough physical pain, having my body punished and brutally beaten, feeling that constriction around my throat as well as blood/knife play, I also have a thing for broken glass… to me there is fewer greater acts of love and devotion that cutting the name of my lover into my body and sharing my blood with her.

Having a medical background and understanding of the body certainly helps to reduce the inherent risks to our play, but the greatest aspect is that of trust and being able to fully give yourself over to someone safe in the knowledge that wherever our play takes us that we seem to have an almost unspoken mutual understanding of the others needs

I am reminded of a time when I was attached to a X frame… metal chains attached to both nipples and clitoris whilst heat is applied to the base of the chain with a blow torch and the heat slowly reaching toward the securing padlocks against my body feeling it burn against my body, before my breasts are cut with a blade and then subjected to the touch of a cat ‘o nine tails… there’s something about being at the receiving of an almost harnessed rage that threatens to consume you…

As Pain suggested there are many others… but a little mystery is always good and undoubtedly more things will be revealed in our writings on the board

Dark x x x x

[_ID_]

Absolutely delicious!

I would be interested to know if either of you (pain or dark) have seen the myspace thread. Reason I ask, there is also a site called mydungeonspace mentioned in the myspace thread. Curiosity makes me wonder if you two are on either site.

I look forward to each of your contributions to the site.

[Guest91408]

I am reminded of a time when I was attached to a X frame… metal chains attached to both nipples and clitoris whilst heat is applied to the base of the chain with a blow torch and the heat slowly reaching toward the securing padlocks against my body feeling it burn against my body, before my breasts are cut with a blade and then subjected to the touch of a cat ‘o nine tails…
Dark x x x x

I think you'll find it was a catering torch my love. Not a blow torch. Detail is everything.

[DarkSister]

I think you'll find it was a catering torch my love. Not a blow torch. Detail is everything.

my mistake darling, guess i was a little distracted at the time it wont happen again X

[gloombunny]

over time I've gotten really excited about the idea of eventually having implants.

Implants? For your chest?

Well... just make sure you find a really good surgeon, I guess. There's a shortage of perfect breasts in this world; it would be a pity to damage yours.

[Krynn]

Foot fetish ,shoes boots etc and
Foreign Accent speaking ladies espcieally French ,Eastern Europena and Spanish

[gloombunny]

My own fetishes include sploshing (especially in conjunction with bondage), and feminization of a sort... sort of odd since I'm already female, but being made to dress up in ridiculous over-the-top frilly pink outfits conflicts with my relatively butch self-image in an enjoyably humiliating way.

The sploshing works well in conjunction with the feminization as well. ^_^

[Hime]

Implants? For your chest?

Well... just make sure you find a really good surgeon, I guess. There's a shortage of perfect breasts in this world; it would be a pity to damage yours.

As you wish.

[cream _(DNW)]

For me my fetishes are getting my tits fucked and to be spanked.But at the same time to take my sub and fuck there ass with a strapon

[Dorkalicious]

I don't know why, but I have a thing for being at least partially clothed. When I was with my ex, I always had my socks on, lol. Sometimes my bra too. I like the vision of the bra straps coming off the shoulders, the loose mini-skirt hiked up....

Mmm..

Then of course, bondage If only I could find someone that I trusted enough who was good at it. I always seem to be able to free myself within the first five minutes. *le sigh*


I would like a good "mind fucking", just to see what it was like. It sounds intriguing... =D