Thank you for the pointers. It was especially enlightening to learn that she may forget the safeword and I will keep that in the forefront of my mind when the time comes. We wont be alone either, as she's roped in a friend who'll be there and who's already decided they want to participate too. I guess there's nothing like jumping in at the deep end... To start, I plan on just keeping to the S/m type stuff, as she often fantasizes about being a Gorean slave girl and I think that'll be a good place to begin the r/l journey.