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sassykitten Inner Conflict 06-11-2007, 10:31 PM
fantassy There are a number of us with... 06-11-2007, 11:08 PM
sassykitten I'm starting to realize that... 06-11-2007, 11:21 PM
Guest i think it may be the same... 06-12-2007, 10:54 AM
Guest There was a thread somewhere... 06-12-2007, 11:06 AM
Ozme52 For those who need the relief... 06-11-2007, 11:41 PM
jeanne I'm with Tufty on this - Oz... 10-21-2007, 03:41 AM
His_little one Very well said.... I think... 10-22-2007, 05:43 PM
jeanne Exactly!! And that he... 10-23-2007, 12:26 AM
Playfulsub This is exactly true for me. ... 11-02-2007, 12:04 PM
Ozme52 So the key is to determine... 11-02-2007, 01:03 PM
Ozme52 Now THAT is what I call a... 10-23-2007, 03:50 PM
jeanne Why, thank you. Thank you... 10-23-2007, 05:40 PM
jeanne I, too, can be quite a... 06-12-2007, 04:50 AM
gagged_Louise To some people who may not be... 06-12-2007, 05:17 AM
gagged_Louise yes, great avatar, wonderful.... 06-12-2007, 11:13 AM
Guest That's a very interesting... 06-12-2007, 11:49 AM
Guest Pretty good, you figured this... 06-12-2007, 06:31 PM
Guest I just wanted to add from a... 06-16-2007, 02:59 AM
TomOfSweden It doesn't have to be a... 06-16-2007, 04:22 AM
KoTe I had the same inner conflict... 06-16-2007, 11:49 PM
sassykitten Thanks so much for all the... 06-17-2007, 12:13 AM
KoTe Don`t worry, sassykitten.... 06-17-2007, 02:04 AM
isabeau6 i've been reading these... 06-17-2007, 02:50 PM
TomOfSweden I don't understand the... 06-17-2007, 10:57 PM
isabeau6 by being a doormat i mean... 06-18-2007, 05:30 AM
Slave Precious Yes, I have this inner... 06-18-2007, 06:09 AM
hispleasure I am very dominant and... 06-19-2007, 09:43 PM
hispleasure I will add regarding my... 06-19-2007, 09:47 PM
ladysinaz This thread is highly... 10-01-2007, 02:43 AM
tessa I believe there is a great... 10-01-2007, 01:27 PM
good_girl I find for myself there have... 10-05-2007, 11:24 PM
HollyBlue You've expressed my... 10-06-2007, 03:24 AM
good_girl I read your blog, and... 10-06-2007, 10:12 AM
jeanne Well said. Yes. Exactly. 10-06-2007, 09:22 AM
White Rabbit I think this post addresses... 10-06-2007, 06:29 PM
Tufty I have to take control of... 10-19-2007, 04:22 PM
deigja going over this again and... 12-24-2007, 07:06 PM
deigja going over this again and... 12-24-2007, 07:32 PM
jeanne I hope you find one you can... 12-24-2007, 10:05 PM
deigja Thanx jeanne, i´ll take care... 12-25-2007, 03:02 PM
TomOfSweden You've already figured out... 12-25-2007, 01:10 PM
deigja It´s not that easy for me as... 12-25-2007, 03:04 PM
Sir_Russell Why is it that so many subs... 11-02-2007, 06:55 PM
Playfulsub You are absolutely right, Sir... 11-03-2007, 10:06 AM
Sir_Russell LOL, Playfulsub, Sorry I... 11-03-2007, 03:51 PM
Playfulsub I can understand why that... 11-05-2007, 06:31 AM
Sir_Russell delia, I understand the need... 11-03-2007, 05:59 PM
Tufty Absolutely right! I had a... 11-03-2007, 06:01 PM
Wedjat I've read this entire thread... 11-04-2007, 02:32 PM
jeanne Very well said! 11-04-2007, 04:21 PM
Sir_Russell Wedjat Well said and well... 11-04-2007, 03:52 PM
Wedjat Thank you Jeanne, and thank... 11-04-2007, 09:15 PM
Ozme52 Well... pushing and testing... 11-05-2007, 02:10 AM
Flaming_Redhead I had a great deal of inner... 11-05-2007, 08:28 PM
Playfulsub Wow, thank you for putting... 11-06-2007, 07:59 AM
caligirl{Rob} i look at it as my strength,... 11-05-2007, 10:15 PM
Wedjat His little one, I'm so happy... 11-06-2007, 07:32 PM
His_little one Thanks Wedjat. I agree --I... 11-06-2007, 07:50 PM
submissivemark I didn't read all of the... 12-26-2007, 05:24 PM
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    Quote Originally Posted by isabeau6 View Post
    but being a slave means becoming a doormat..and i disagree with that...any thoughts on that?
    I don't understand the problem. You want someone "to take control of every part of me". But any Master who loves you wants first and foremost that you are happy. If he doesn't care about your happiness then it's not much of a relationship, is it? So why not go for the happy doormat?

    There's a difference between being in control and taking the decisions. In control means more than anything that you are aware of all the details. That you understand what is happening and why the Master does what he does. Which off-course can get a bit obsessive, but it's in my opinion nothing unhealthy. Communication and trust can solve all this. Or should solve all this.
    Last edited by TomOfSweden; 06-18-2007 at 01:25 AM.

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