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Use the internet, there are sites that do specialize in gay men dating.
As far as why we respond to certain physical types all I can say is that most of do have that specific body type(s) that we respond too at a level that is thought free. Mine are little women.
I found morgan by searching AFF for someone that speaks to my mind not my body. She is too tall, has these large breasts, and the list goes on, but even though she is not the physical type I am drawn to, I am very in love with her. This type of search may open you up to other men or it may not work at all for you.