I find myself always being attracted to people the longer I know them. Once I get to know them well, it invaritabily happens that I like them. I has resulted in me liking some pretty ugly women. Kinda a downside, I'd say.
But it does provide for a cover for every pot, in a general kind of way.
And it does free some women from always having to depend upon their looks to get a mate. They always say, "I want him to love me for my mind!"
Liking somebody for their personality doesn't sound all that bad to me. Some pretty good "Up" A couple of "outstanding" "Downs."