Writing for Martians.

[ProjectEuropa]

You would have to agree, wouldn't you? There's a huge difference, generally, between writing for men and writing for women.

I guess I am such a sissy. I can appreciate the cruder points of porn and it has its place but a good plot and erotic suspense, I find vital in a story or often I can't get past the first wham bam thank you mam, multiple simultaneous orgasm. I'm not sure if it is about the apparent differing complexity of sexual psychology that appears to exist between men and women, though I do believe it does exist. Maybe it is because as you say, women take longer to get warmed up or maybe women are very much more decerning about sexual partners than men, though I think things even out a little in long term relationships but a book and a picture is not a long term relationship. However on the whole I think you are right, women like artistic foreplay and men want to forget about the nicities and have her bend over and yell 'Fill me baby!'

If I want a wank, then porn is fine, who wants to trawl through page after page of complex plot to get to the money shot, when one just wants to come and get on with the day. Porn is also a turn on when sharing it with a partner as there is no bigger turn on than knowing what turns your partner on. But to be able to suspend belief because of good writing and be taken on psychological journey into the heart of eroticism is a wonderful experience. I love to read good female erotic writing as it imparts so many secrets to the psychological motivation and physcal experience of women. How can men not be interested in that? I read a fine piece not long ago that was pure sexual heroin. In a way it was porn but it was also very well written, deliciously delivered, measured and observed detail that took the writer through a simple sexual experience of a woman.

I also have the same feelings about films and images. Often I find nothing more unerotic than erotic imagery. Women with pneumatic chests and arses that are firm enough to be able to park your bike. That pouting as the mere thought of her taking a 12 inch dick brings her to spontaneous orgasm, just makes me want to slap her face. A Barbie doll just doesn't get me hot, they are asexual. Hmm I'm getting off the point here. Good art is necessary for the finer sensations and emotions, porn is for a wank and then it doesn't always work because it is so so obvious and transparent.