You would have to agree, wouldn't you? There's a huge difference, generally, between writing for men and writing for women.

Men tend to enjoy the graphic vividness of porn and blunt raw language. They usually require a lot less emotional involvement with character and plot to be enticed to read on. They need sex - lots of it. Clean it up afterwards with a mop and bucket kind of action, and if the plot is good then that's a bonus!

We Women, I believe, more frequently prefer 'erotica' to porn. We like words. We like a plot. We demand more information behind the scenes. The story can be very sexually graphic in context, but a woman needs something that allows her mind to get wrapped up and emotionally involved in the story.

It's not that women are any less sexual than men. Ever wonder why we're such teasers? It's simply because it takes us longer to heated up. Our sexual parts are more complex and so the time it takes and way we get turned on is different.

I've made some very gross generalizations here, each human being is unique, and each has their own individual tastes. There are women who really like porn and there are men who really like erotica, and there are both who like both, and both who like neither. Overall, however, I believe our tastes are quite different.