Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
Rabbit1 I hate to disagree with you but unless we are roleplaying no means just that as does stop. Problem with all safe words is that once she has gone beyond caring about anything but the sensation she will not use the safe word when she should. I find that I have to watch her closely to be sure this doesn't happen.

Oh gags, for any of us when you gag the sub give them a physical signal to use or my favorite for when she is spread eagled standing something to drop that will make noise as it hits the floor. Funny thing is that morgan can do that better then using her safe word.
guess you have never used a feather to tickle your sub after she is bound ---usually the first word from her is stop --or quit ---but she really does not mean it -----that is why one universal safe word is good ---even in spanking most subs will say stop and not really mean it ----it is just natural --or has been in my experience ---so for me and my sub a universal safe word works great ---since she likes to be tickled and spanked ---

of course I have only been doing this for 25 years so what do I know ---what ever works for you is great ---but I am talking about a new sub ---or a new dom ---I see a lot of misconceptions ---you say dom and sub and people in not in the lifestile automaticly see Leather clad people whips and chains ---chambers of horror ---pure perverts ---S&M can be a part of BDSM but not the only part you do not have to be a Sadist to be a Dom as I do love and care for my sub ---