Does It Hurt?

[isabeau6]

guess you have never used a feather to tickle your sub after she is bound ---usually the first word from her is stop --or quit ---but she really does not mean it -----that is why one universal safe word is good ---even in spanking most subs will say stop and not really mean it ----it is just natural --or has been in my experience ---so for me and my sub a universal safe word works great ---since she likes to be tickled and spanked ---

of course I have only been doing this for 25 years so what do I know ---what ever works for you is great ---but I am talking about a new sub ---or a new dom ---I see a lot of misconceptions ---you say dom and sub and people in not in the lifestile automaticly see Leather clad people whips and chains ---chambers of horror ---pure perverts ---S&M can be a part of BDSM but not the only part you do not have to be a Sadist to be a Dom as I do love and care for my sub ---

o the images that brings up..tickling with a feather...

safewords are used in tickling however, such as when the ticklee just absolutely can't take it anymore..or the breathing becomes difficult..or she/he needs to pee...grrr.....many people think tickling is easy fluff compared to other forms of play, but there are pain subs/slaves who actually prefer to be beaten rather than tickled as they cannot stand it..and often it can be used as punishment for them..and then a safe word is definitely needed in case it becomes horribly unbearable..but that kind of defeats the purpose of tickle torture, which is my favorite..

but a safeword should always be an option...and if gagged, there are safety signals that are agreed upon by the people involved...i don't speak from experience but from what i've been told....damn did i make any sense?

and don't rush into the first Dom that comes along..because of how pretty you are and young, you will be bombarded by those who wish to become your Dom...take your time..you are young..you have your whole life ahead of you...and most importantly of all...HAVE FUN