I am totally intrigued to know how things are going Guy Sir.

While I have to agree she deingetly knows what she wants, I need to confess, she may know what she wants with little or no actual experience.

While I lived my "vanilla" life, my earliest memory sexually was still bondage related, and I am talking maybe 3 at tops. The first time I felt "safe enough" to actually make a real attempt to let my interests be known I had been thinking about it in fantasy and day dreaming of what would be needed, then privately experimenting with the feelings, including figuring out how to make those "possibilities plausible.

Back then there was no internet, it was what I can only guess is known as the BBS system. My computer experience was limited till 2000.

Having said that, the minute I found access to the internet I was reading as much as possible, and found this site, as well as many others.

Sooooo, it maybe that with her interests and limited sexual partners, she has also been dreaming of that possible reality Top/Dom to be in her life, and finding her very best friend to be so interested must be an incredible excitement for her.

If you ask me, she may not have been willing to ell you what she is intersted in or expects because the desire to be controlled and dominated is part of that entire desire she has been displaying to you each time she reacts to your actions.

*giggles and thinks thats one reason we are known as subbies*

Love this thread!

all my best wishes for you both!

veru