First of all, I love the forum and that's why I registered. I have long fantasized about the BDSM lifestyle and just never met a girl who was into it...until now! I'm no kid. I'm 44 years old, in very good shape and divorced for 10 years. I bartend part time and over the years have had the opportunity for lots and lots of sex. I have a girl who has been my very best friend for the last several years. There was never any sexual tension between us because she was married. Messing with married people is something I don't do and neither does she. It was a very comfortable relationship and we talked about everything. She was always the first call I made after getting laid. As luck would have it, she left her husband in February and we immediately started seeing each other. We have had sex almost everyday since. I was worried at first because she is much younger than I (30) and has only had 2 sex partners her entire life. After the first 2 months I almost talked to someone about it wondering how I could explain to her that "sex" is a verb! In otherwords...DO SOMETHING! She has an insatiable appetite, but didn't do a lot to participate. Well all of a sudden I guess she felt comfortable with our new relationship and started suggesting being tied up. I was ecstatic! She even had me install I-bolts in the walls next to my bed to anchor ropes/cuffs. Anyway, we have every other weekend free (no kids) when she can stay over and we can stay in bed all weekend. That's coming up next weekend and we are planning our first "session". She seems as excited about it as I am. I went to the store yesterday to restock my "fun drawer". I got an extra set of cuffs, a large dildoe, a new vibrator, some rope, a blindfold and a cock ring.

My request is for suggestions about how to handle this. I don't want to push too far and scare her, especially the first time. I want this to be a long term ongoing situation. I particularly would like to introduce her to anal sex. So far she doesn't seem to thrilled with the idea, but she also really likes it when I let my tongue wander when I'm licking her. We often "69" with each other and I have always let her handle the cock sucking at her own pace. I guess because of my excitement over our newly found "common interest", the other night I started thrusting in and out of her mouth. Basically "forcefully face fucking" her which is something I have always fantasized about. To my surprise, it really turned her on and she came that much faster and harder.

So there ya have it gang! The girl is petite, beautiful and I love her dearly. I want our first session to be a very special occassion but it's all new to me. Can those of you with more experience offer any suggestions? If it helps, she is very "into" penetration and can cum quite enthusiastically from vaginal sex. I've met many girls who don't. Also, she has very tiny breasts but sensitive nipple and reacts nicely when I pinch them.

I have been involved in the internet since they invented the damn thing so I know there are a lot of players and bullshitters out there. I can assure all of you, I find this forum very enlightening and this is a 100% legitimate post.

Hope to hear from both doms and subs alike.

MrJerseyGuy