For a while I was very unhappy being a Sub because the man I love did not think that he could deal with a BDSM relationship. Luckily, I was right all along (I know, I'm so humble and obedient, right?) and when he tried being a Dom he couldn't get enough of it.
Our relationship does have one problem that is related to Teddy's, though: my husband is very attractive and very hairy (not chubby, though -- he has a small but athletic build and a really cute butt), and he is constantly approached by gay men!Not that I'm threatened by them (he is very straight), but it's irritating that he's more popular with men than I am!