Self esteem and self confidence

[tanis]

Self esteem issues are in all of us. Just keep reminding yourself that all those people out there are just like you. Insecure and lonely. You can make it, we all have.

I agree. Been there, worked at it for years (all my life) and only a little while ago did I start to believe the nice things my loved ones said about me. It still gets in my head...but I think this:

If you were my submissive I would find that statement highly insulting. In fact, let me ask you do you think your master has such horrible taste and sense that he would pick someone who is in fact:

ugly
stupid
fat
good for nothing
and a waste of his time?

finally got into my head by a loved one and one day stuck. That was just the beginning. It is a waste of time to stew in our flaws and weaknesses.