"Barely Submissive"- A Question of Being

[Logic1]

For me a sub without some struggle is not very interresting. I need something to "work against" if you know what I mean.
feedback is nessecary to improve whatever it is you are doing and this area is no different.
Realistically submissive sounds understandeable and should work for most, except those that crave to be completely submissive to their Dom/Mistress.

Stubbornness and arrogance would abviously lead to spankings though Hime

[Hime]

Stubbornness and arrogance would abviously lead to spankings though Hime

Uh-oh...

[jeanne]

I've been thinking a lot in the last few weeks about how I define submission for myself (again) and have had some really intense conversations with a good friend (hi ) who's on the same wavelength. So I bumped this thread back up because I remember it being so full of wisdom and information and affirmation...and it is.

Barely submissive? Maybe the difference is just opportunity, chemistry, like minds... As has been stated in other threads, by both dominants and submissives, we can only submit to the extent that they dominate - they can only dominate to the extent that we submit. A very, very vital, fluid relationship. And we really do depend on each other deeply to realize the fullest extent of our dominance or submission. More than I realized even a month ago.

I guess I'll just never stop learning,
jeanne

[tessa]

we can only submit to the extent that they dominate - they can only dominate to the extent that we submit. A very, very vital, fluid relationship. And we really do depend on each other deeply to realize the fullest extent of our dominance or submission.

I am always in awe when it is all said exactly as it should be.

I guess I'll just never stop learning,

I hope none of us ever do, for the learning is the journey.