I couldn't have said it better myself Rounders! When I fantasize about rape I like to put myself in the victims shoes and there's nothing that irritates me more than for her to suddenly get excited by the rape. I always read to see if it is "nc" or rape and bypass those that are "reluctant" or anything that would be consensual. Unfortunately that doesn't always mean anything to the author who seems to think a woman can be forced into orgasm. Give me a break! I know that a lot of guys fantasize about that or maybe are just afraid to post a story realistically but I think that should be put in the description of the story. Instead of "nc" or "rape" how about "orgasmic fantasy rape" or something that will save those of us who want it realistic the time wasted reading it?

We all have individual fantasies and I have no problem with that, there should however be a way to determine if the story we are about to read is "realistic fantasy" or "fantasy fantasy".

The same goes true for "humiliation", I love the fantasy of being humiliated yet so many stories have the victim getting "wet" and afraid her abductors will notice. As far as I'm concerned if it's turning you on, you want it!

Thanks for the post.