Quote Originally Posted by ProjectEuropa
If I want a wank, then porn is fine, who wants to trawl through page after page of complex plot to get to the money shot, when one just wants to come and get on with the day. Porn is also a turn on when sharing it with a partner as there is no bigger turn on than knowing what turns your partner on.
I guess this would be a matter of opinion, ProjectEuropa. Personally, I can't get off to porn, believe me I've tried. I have more luck reading a scene from some well-written erotica, then lying on my bed and visualising it all. It's just too bad there isn't much well-written M/m erotica around, however the good stuff is long enough to contain many scenes, and by the time I finish I can just start again at the beginning.

I also don't see the attraction to sharing porn with a partner, I'd much rather create it myself. It embarrasses me to say that my "porn stash" consists almost solely of pictures of myself tied up, again so that I can close my eyes and remember what happened, or what I'd hoped would happen at the time.

But then, it takes all sorts to make a world, does it not?