You have a point,Bald J-and-F, but fantasy is fantasy. As long as we understand that it is, and remains, fiction.

Some people fear that violent fiction (and video games) induces some people to commit violent (e.g. rape) acts, and makes other people tolerant of same. Perhaps. I have have had rape fantasies all my life (I'll skip the self-analysis here), but have never done them--and I have had a few authentic opportunities.

Actually, I agree with you: it is absurd to think that a rape victim would "come around" and "respond" to her attacker's actions. I believe there are a lot of women who might fantasize about that, but if it actually happened, would find it to be a very tragic situation. And if a (probabably) man did it, he would (1) be very foolish, in this day of advanced criminology, and (2) hopefully find that it's not the gratifying experience he hoped it to be.

Alas, there are enough sick individuals who do attempt and practice this fantasy. For them, we have jails.

For the rest of us, we have bdsmlibrary.com!

(Also asstr.org)