Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
It seems counter productive to encourage subs to think of themselves as high-maintenance.

...................Exactly!.............lol


I don't think of myself as high-maintenance......... and an a normal basis I'm not. And I certainly don't ever want to be considered high-maintenance.

Good Doms however, encourage us to feel our emotions and show them, which in turn makes, ...or at least makes me

.........somewhat........ sad to say......high-maintenance.......LOL

A good Dom wants to know if you are happy or sad. A good Dom wants to know exactly how you are feeling, good or bad. A good Dom wants to know how your day was, and how it is going at the moment. A good Dom wants to know the what is going on inside your head.......

Sometimes the answers are not always the warm fuzzy things in life...........

When I'm crying and sad, I need comfort and love.
When I'm being crazy and unreasonable, I need talking back from the edge.

That is what I consider to be high-maintenance, and not something that I enjoy at all. But they are parts of me. They are the parts that a good Dom should want to see.........and feel

.........which unfortunately sometimes makes me........well you know...........LOL