Quote Originally Posted by Rosie
Any suggestions, please?
Just one: Don't do another DS thing with him, ever!


Ask yourself the following questions and answer honestly:

Do I trust myself to be helpless with this man?

Do I trust this man's judgment and compassion?

Do I trust this man to communicate his feelings to me before he lashes out at me again?


If you answer no to any of the above, then you should not be practicing and kind of BDSM with your partner, husband or no.