Orgasm Control- The In's and Out's

[tessa]

So - Tessa - might I suggest you go to Slothlands? I am quite certain you will encunter what you wish. Pun intended.

Thanks for that idea, moptop. I'm afraid I don't have time to blink right now, but when I can see my way clear to Slothlands, I'll put in my application and wait to hear if I'm accepted

Well, Red. You have given this idea some thought, I see. What a sweetie you are! ~huggles with boob squishage~ I also had OC confused with OD. hey, put that all together and you have OCD! Who knew all this was so closely related?? ~giggles~

And this part-

The physical demands of being kept in this highly-excited state for a time can induce a very pleasurable, almost euphoric state in the passive partner. A caring active partner will also usually derive pleasure from witnessing his/her partner in such an excited state.

Orgasm control requires a high degree of skill on the part of the active partner, enough familiarity to be able to correctly react to their partner's responses, and to get the intensity and timing of the stimulation just right. If there is too little stimulation or if it is reduced too soon the experience is not so intense. Too much stimulation or for too long allows the passive partner to reach the 'tipping point', causing orgasm to occur too early. The real skill lies in knowing one's partner well enough to be able to keep them hovering almost on the very edge of orgasm, thereby maximizing the experience.

-goes along well with what Oz says. "A good Dom pays attention". He said the same thing, just in a much more concise way.

Hey, Oz? Did you write that article for Wikipedia? Letting them have all your words, are you?? And hey! Stay away from my kink, would you?!?

Let me know if I've captured it properly.

Oh my. My, my! ~fans self~ Yeah, you captured it alright. Locked it up tight, too. ~moans a little bit~ Wow.

Hey Red, did you read excerpt? If not, don't! You'll end up having one of those "scientific purposes" happen. And I'm not SO bad. Am I?? By the way, we really need to talk about female ejaculation some more. ~nods lots~

I could have sat back with a big grin on my face... but I also heard/read her dispair. So I called her and commanded her to be obedient and cum when ever I gave permission whether I was present or not. I didn't let her cum while I was on the phone. That would have reinforced the problem.

Brilliant. And I use that word only when warranted. Ask Tom. And thanks for sharing your perspective, Oz. It is incredibly helpful.