Orgasm Control- The In's and Out's

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So if begging is something that you are interested in doing, it's possible that the process of overcoming your barriers to asking for things and your fear of failure would actually make the experience more gratifying for you. The feeling that "if I have to ask for help it means that I've failed" is probably something that makes your life more difficult, and working on it with your dominant partner could be a really liberating experience.

Thanks for your comments Hime, I can personally relate to much of what you stated. I think that the hardest thing to do is break down and overcome the feelings of what you feel is wrong, uncomfortable and taboo.

We want you to beg us because that is OUR kink. We relish the power you give us when we control your orgasms and begging allows us to wield that power (perhaps over simplified.)

I hope that Oz and mine comments will help you to know that it isn't failure but success to beg your Dom which will please him very much and, this may shock you too, make him very proud of you and being your Dom. There is nothing else that does that quite like begging.

I don't understand how the power exchange can be complete until this is done, and once you have, excuse the term, mastered it both of you will live the life you want.
Russell

Yes both you and Ozme have answered my question. Thank you to both of you.
I sometimes fail to fully understand the reasoning behind certain things that Dominants want to achieve, I suppose due to the fact that I have an extremely difficult time letting go of ingrained thoughts and habits.

You didn't hijack it a bit! You added to it. My thanks.

Thanks , I should stop doing things like that.
I think one of the worst qualities I posess as a person and submissive is my insecurity in myself.