Hmmm, being a newbie in the Top/Dom thing, one can definitely get carried away, without knowing how/where to put limits.

All in all, luv, sounds like it was just part of his scene, though.

Advice(?!): simply make sure there is a workable way for you to get away (or out of the bondage on your own) should the scening get too carried away, and he chooses not to recognize when you truly want to stop. (believe me, that takes LOTS of practice, to be able to read each other in this context!)

You both sound as if you need to slow down, curb your anxiousness at the fun, and learn more at a much slower pace.