While I do not really have an opinion to offer as far as the activity under discussion, I did wish to say that this discussion itself really makes the case for why I have found this site and the people who share here to be so impressive. In some respects, I have at times found the BDSM community to rival the Vanilla world in being judgemental. Here it seems people are willing to give consideration to another person's point of view and even allow their own minds to be changed when there is a basis for that to occur. I was thoroughly impressed with the openness that many have exhibited in this discussion.
I simply know that it is a good thing when people can discuss issues over which they may not all agree and can be respectful of someone else's views and opinions. What a marvelous example of effective communication I have read here and I much appreciated the opportunity. I think it is always a good thing when we can show tolerance for the interests of others even when it may be something we ourselves do not find appealing. At least within the lifestyle I think people should be able to expect this.