I've been thinking a lot in the last few weeks about how I define submission for myself (again) and have had some really intense conversations with a good friend (hi) who's on the same wavelength. So I bumped this thread back up because I remember it being so full of wisdom and information and affirmation...and it is.
Barely submissive? Maybe the difference is just opportunity, chemistry, like minds... As has been stated in other threads, by both dominants and submissives, we can only submit to the extent that they dominate - they can only dominate to the extent that we submit. A very, very vital, fluid relationship. And we really do depend on each other deeply to realize the fullest extent of our dominance or submission. More than I realized even a month ago.
I guess I'll just never stop learning,
jeanne