his-j, thanks for quote #2! I have to figure out how to do that : )

I appreciate everybody's comments, and it's all very enlightening. Still working on where I might fit in and what I might want in the long run. One of my biggest concerns is that I worry about losing myself, because, dammit! I like who I am now. I don't want somebody who thinks they have to change me. I do know that we change all the time and growth should be a part of life, and I'm looking to learn new things - and have new things done to me : ) I would like to grow together with someone. Does any of that make sense?