"Barely Submissive"- A Question of Being

[jeanne]

his-j, thanks for quote #2! I have to figure out how to do that : )

I appreciate everybody's comments, and it's all very enlightening. Still working on where I might fit in and what I might want in the long run. One of my biggest concerns is that I worry about losing myself, because, dammit! I like who I am now. I don't want somebody who thinks they have to change me. I do know that we change all the time and growth should be a part of life, and I'm looking to learn new things - and have new things done to me : ) I would like to grow together with someone. Does any of that make sense?

Quoted again! And yes, it makes perfect sense to me - I too like myself - and it was a long road to get there. And I worried about being "changed". I hit the jackpot though - karma stepped in and put me in the path of one who likes me just the way I am, respects my brain, and values my submissiveness - without feeling the need to change me to fit some predetermined mold. Instead, he is helping me discover (or is it uncover) my submissive nature and is enjoying the journey with me. He's just my type and tells me that I am his, too. I truly am blessed to have him in my life today. And to top it all off with whipped cream and a cherry? The things we do - the things he does with me and to me - well, I can only say OMG, as in "OMG, that was amazing" or "OMG, please don't stop" and my favorite: "OMG, please, may I come again?" for the third or fourth or tenth time...it just got very warm in here, didn't it?

I hope you find that for yourself. I'm proof that it exists - the perfect match of need and desire.

Eternally grateful,
jeanne

[Ozme52]

his-j, thanks for quote #2! I have to figure out how to do that : )

Look at the bottom right corner of this or any other post. Press the 'quote' button and you're on your way. You'll note bounding [-quote-] and [-/quote-] tags (minus the hyphens) and you can add more of those to split a quote up and add your comments between different parts of the quote.

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[Ozme52]

Quoted again! And yes, it makes perfect sense to me - I too like myself - and it was a long road to get there. And I worried about being "changed". I hit the jackpot though - karma stepped in and put me in the path of one who likes me just the way I am, respects my brain, and values my submissiveness - without feeling the need to change me to fit some predetermined mold. Instead, he is helping me discover (or is it uncover) my submissive nature and is enjoying the journey with me. He's just my type and tells me that I am his, too. I truly am blessed to have him in my life today. And to top it all off with whipped cream and a cherry? The things we do - the things he does with me and to me - well, I can only say OMG, as in "OMG, that was amazing" or "OMG, please don't stop" and my favorite: "OMG, please, may I come again?" for the third or fourth or tenth time...it just got very warm in here, didn't it?

I hope you find that for yourself. I'm proof that it exists - the perfect match of need and desire.

Eternally grateful,
jeanne

Is it an understatement to say you sound very very happy.

[jeanne]

Is it an understatement to say you sound very very happy.

Yes. It is an understatement. I'm not only very very, I'm very very very very! Happy, that is.

[Wedjat]

Look at the bottom right corner of this or any other post. Press the 'quote' button and you're on your way. You'll note bounding [-quote-] and [-/quote-] tags (minus the hyphens) and you can add more of those to split a quote up and add your comments between different parts of the quote.

If you want to quote more than one person, click on the 'multi' button in each of the posts you want... and then go to the bottom and press 'reply'

Thanks Oz, let me see if this works

Quoted again! And yes, it makes perfect sense to me - I too like myself - and it was a long road to get there. And I worried about being "changed". I hit the jackpot though - karma stepped in and put me in the path of one who likes me just the way I am, respects my brain, and values my submissiveness - without feeling the need to change me to fit some predetermined mold. Instead, he is helping me discover (or is it uncover) my submissive nature and is enjoying the journey with me. He's just my type and tells me that I am his, too. I truly am blessed to have him in my life today. And to top it all off with whipped cream and a cherry? The things we do - the things he does with me and to me - well, I can only say OMG, as in "OMG, that was amazing" or "OMG, please don't stop" and my favorite: "OMG, please, may I come again?" for the third or fourth or tenth time...it just got very warm in here, didn't it?

I hope you find that for yourself. I'm proof that it exists - the perfect match of need and desire.

Eternally grateful,
jeanne

....and thank you once again, Jeanne. I appreciate your comments very much, and you give me hope. I'll have to keep that whipped cream and cherry in mind if I do meet someone (or get to meet the someone I've been chatting with! I'll have to thank him again for telling me about this site. : )