delia,
I understand the need to test a Dom/Master and I think you agreed with me that once control and respect has been established then testing is no longer needed.

If not, if you are one of those that have to be all ways testing to see if you can cause your Dom to react then you are topping from the bottom. I just don't respond to that type of testing once I have proven myself. I am the one who is in charge or in control but I also believe that her submission is a gift that she has the right to withdraw. Constant testing tells me she needs someone that offer other then I offer.