Relationships outside of marriage

[Isabelle90]

I love my husband and intend to spend the rest of my life with him and will do everything in my power to ensure he never knows. And I'll deal with the consequences if he ever finds out - good or bad. And yes, I know it would be bad.

If your husband found out and ended your marriage (would he?), would you then be able to begin an open real-life, if it's not already, relationship with your dom?

How would you handle this with your children?

I'm trying to grasp what it would be like to be in this situation.

[jeanne]

If your husband found out and ended your marriage (would he?), would you then be able to begin an open real-life, if it's not already, relationship with your dom?

How would you handle this with your children?

I'm trying to grasp what it would be like to be in this situation.

Isabelle - I'm fortunate in some ways. I have a real-life relationship with him. Because of distance we are unable to see each other often, but when we do...yes, it's that good.

And my children are almost grown. They are beginning their own lives now and will only be at home another year or two. (Yep, I'm an old lady. )

If my husband found and then divorced me, would I have a more open relationship with Him? Well, yes and no. I'd see him more often, that's for sure, but he too is married and committed to that marriage so it isn't as if we'd be together always and live happily everafter. But, the time we spend together is so intense, so completely real and so bone-deep satisfying for me that I'm happy with what I get. Very happy with what I get.