Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
I love my husband and intend to spend the rest of my life with him and will do everything in my power to ensure he never knows. And I'll deal with the consequences if he ever finds out - good or bad. And yes, I know it would be bad.
If your husband found out and ended your marriage (would he?), would you then be able to begin an open real-life, if it's not already, relationship with your dom?

How would you handle this with your children?

I'm trying to grasp what it would be like to be in this situation.