*blushes* You're welcome. I'm not really an advocate for divorce because it can be a nasty business, but in my case, I literally felt that it was a do or die situation. If you're considering it, make damn sure it's what you really want and worth any price because, trust me, you won't get out unscathed...i.e. loss of friends (they'll take sides), disapproval of family members, child(ren) choosing to live with the other parent, ex threatening to expose your proclivities to DFACS, ex threatening to make trouble at your job, etc. *deep breath* I'm still alive, and I'm doing the best that I can. Most days, I'm even happy! *smiles* People like tessa and DareDevil and VoodooMan....I don't know what I'd do without them....real people who love me just the way I am....*cries* I'm sorry....anyway, I don't regret what I had to do. I regret that I had no fight left in me....that I listened to my mother and tried to be nice to him....felt sorry for him even....while he was playing dirty....

See, this is why I stay away from this thread.....I blab too much! grrrr Don't touch me! Stop looking at me like that! I don't want or need your pity. This bitch right here is tough! *nods a lot* Everyone back away from the red-head slowly, and you won't get hurt!

*whispers* ppssttt....tessa, you can hug me all you want but only 'cause you give those boobie squishing hugs, and your hair smells nice....mmmmm