If it's a real limit... then you should not allow her to punish you.
If it is something you might do under the right circumstances, you should talk about it and if you feel you were merely upset about the circumstances, then a punishment might be due... IF you both agree that the circumstances were not an inhibitor.

That said, the mere fact that she and you have apparently not discussed limits is an issue (hers) and the fact that she was inebriated AND scening with you, (even if in absentia) is a sign that she's out of control.

That's bad for a dom/me to be. Can you really trust her with your safety?

Just my opinion.